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The Secret to Abundance: Overcoming Negative Self-Worth with Ritual Magick

Hey everyone! So, life’s this wild ride where what we think and feel kinda shapes what happens to us, right? One big thing that trips up a lot of us when we’re trying to get the good stuff flowing in our lives is this sneaky feeling that we’re just not good enough. It’s like this annoying little voice that keeps holding us back, making us feel unworthy, even when we’re putting in the effort and really want to make things happen.

I’m Madame Formtastica, and I’ve seen so many people struggle with this. It’s not about not wanting it enough or not trying hard; it’s more about beating that feeling that we don’t deserve the awesome stuff we’re dreaming about.

Today, I’m here to guide you through this transformative path from self-doubt to self-empowerment, with the aid of our ritual combo: black spell candles for clearing and aventurine crystals for manifesting.

The Power of Intention: Clearing with Black Spell Candles

The first step in our journey is to clear the path. Imagine your negative self-beliefs as weeds in a garden, choking the beautiful, vibrant flowers yet to bloom. Our black spell candles are the magical tool for this task, designed to banish these energetic blockages and create a fertile ground for new seeds. As you light the candle, envision the flames consuming your doubts, fears, and feelings of unworthiness, transforming them into empowering ashes from which you can rise.

Madame Formtastica’s Insight: As the candle burns, hold a clear intention to release these negative beliefs. Speak them out loud or write them down, then watch as the paper turns to ash in the candle’s flame. This symbolic act is powerful, marking the end of their hold over you.

 Cultivating Abundance: Manifesting with Aventurine

With our garden cleared, it’s time to plant the seeds of abundance. Aventurine, a gemstone known for its properties of prosperity and luck, serves as our spiritual fertilizer. This crystal doesn’t just attract abundance; it encourages us to open our hearts and minds to receive it, fostering a sense of worthiness and empowerment.

Madame Formtastica’s Ritual Tip: Keep the aventurine crystal with you during the ritual and beyond. It can be a pocket stone, a piece of jewelry, or simply placed in a sacred space at home. As you interact with this crystal, affirm your openness and readiness to embrace the abundance you deserve.

 Embracing the Journey: From Self-Doubt to Self-Empowerment

The transition from harboring negative self-worth to embracing self-empowerment is profound. It’s about recognizing that you are deserving of all the universe has to offer. Abundance isn’t merely material wealth; it’s love, joy, opportunities, and so much more. By clearing away the old, limiting beliefs with our black spell candle and inviting in prosperity with aventurine, you’re taking active steps towards a life filled with abundance.

Madame Formtastica’s Assurance: Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Transformation takes time, patience, and sometimes, a guiding hand. If you find yourself needing support, wisdom, or just a listening ear, I’m here. Reach out through a comment or a direct message, and let’s navigate this magical path together.

The Healing Power of Scent: Botanical Incense as Your Ally

Additional Tip: Incorporate the use of botanical incense as “The Healer” in this ritual process. Scents are powerful allies in your manifestations, capable of enhancing the atmosphere and deepening your focus on the desired outcomes. As you work with the black spell candle and aventurine, allow the incense to envelop you, further clearing your mind of negativity and filling the space with the energy of potential and renewal. Choose scents like lavender for relaxation, sage for cleansing, or rosemary for mental clarity, and let these natural fragrances support your journey to abundance.

Abundance flows where self-worth grows. With these tools, rituals, and the added power of scent, let’s clear the path for abundance, welcoming a life of prosperity and fulfillment. The magick lies within you; it’s time to unlock it.

The Celestial Science of Manifesting

House of Formlab Moon Phases InfographicNew Moon: A New Moon is a dark Moon. It is day 0 of the Moons rotation around the Earth when it’s face is towards the Earth and is in full darkness. It sits directly between the Sun and the Earth.

This is a phase to invite new beginnings. Welcome new challenges set yourself new goals or ask for your heart’s desire. During a New Moon Ritual, it is usual to set intentions and focus on how you will manifest these intentions during the coming month. A dark New Moon is a very intimate and powerful ritual, so check what you really want before you make your requests to the universe.

Full Moon: Is when the Moon sits on the opposite side of the Earth than the Sun. Its face is illuminated brightly by the light of the Sun. We see a beautiful glowing Full Moon in the night sky. This is the time to let things go. Let go of problems, worries, unwanted behaviour, and toxic people so that you can heal and move forward without these things holding you back. The Moon’s brightness offers hope, white celestial light to guide your forward, and confer blessings from the Moon Goddess Selene.

How to Prepare

New Moon: First, take a meditative bath with some salts and calming essential oils such as Lavender to still your mind so that you can focus on what you really want without the “noise” of everyday stresses. Smoke cleanse (smudge) your sacred space with incense such as Patchouli which is linked to love, wealth and money, or burn sacred herbs such as Sweetgrass for divine feminine guidance, or Palo Santo for your requests to be granted.

Full Moon: For New Moon Cleansing you can use White Sage to help cast out negative energy. Leave a window open for bad energy to escape through. Palo Santo is also an excellent smoke cleansing tool as it refreshes the space, filling it with positive energy so that as you release and let go of those worries and problems, their space is filled with better energy.

Setting your Intentions/Affirmations

New Moon: During a New Moon you want to set positive intentions for yourself so that during the ritual you can commit yourself to manifest these, asking the universe or your spirit guide for help. Try to limit yourself to only a few so that you can really give them proper focus and attention during this Moon cycle. For example:

  • I am ready to …
  • I want to …
  • I ready to meet my new love
  • I want to find my true path in life
  • I will find a new job

Full Moon: Get ready to cast out those demons (or ex’s). Look at what is really holding you back – now is the time to let it go. Be honest with yourself and the universe will answer with its help.

  • I release myself from ….
  • I cleanse myself of ….
  • I free myself of ….
  • I forgive myself for ….
  • I let go of my ex
  • I will stop smoking
  • I free myself of needing to be liked

The Best Crystals to Use

For both Moon rituals, you can use Clear Quartz and Moonstone to give power and moon energy to your requests to the universe. You can also use Selenite and Labradorite for both rituals but if you do wish to separate your crystals for these rituals then you can use Selenite for Full Moon rituals and Labradorite for New Moon rituals.

New Moon: During the dark arctic winters when there is no light from the New Moon you can see the Northern Lights dance across the midnight sky. The native peoples of Canada believed Labradorite was created of frozen fire from the Northern Lights. Labradorite is the interdimensional magick fixer helping you manifest those intentions under dark and mysterious skies. It is a deeply magick crystal, meditate while watching its colourful flashes and keep recommitting to your New Moon intentions.

Full Moon: Selenite emits pure light energy into your space and during a Full Moon it is at its peak of energy. In Greek, Selenite means stone from the moon, representing its ethereal moonlight and is named after the Greek Goddess of the Moon, Selene. Using a piece of Selenite or a Selenite sphere helps you to channel that divine energy and to power your affirmations, helping you to truly let go and replacing that negativity with positive energy. Keep your Selenite near a window so it can channel this energy into your space during the month and act as a visual reminder to stick to your affirmations.

Closing Your Ritual

New Moon: Smile and take 3 deep controlled breaths. Feel your confidence grow and stiffen your resolve that your intentions will be manifested. Sip on hot tea such as fresh mint or green tea or a hibiscus infusion to focus your thinking by refreshing your body and mind. Hold your ritual crystal and know what it will help you manifest your intentions. Keep this crystal close to you this month. Take a meditative salt bath with essential oils such as peppermint or pink grapefruit to stimulate your creative thinking to help provide the answers you need.

Full Moon: Allow the energy you have created to surround you. Sip on a hot tea such as Ginger or Mandarin/Orange to recharge your batteries and comfort you as you let go of those toxic things in your life. Hold your ritual crystal, draw an Oracle card for extra direction or insight on how to keep your positive energy flowing. Keep your crystal with you that evening, then the next morning pop it near a window so that it can recharge and remind you that you have already let go of those negative things should they pop back into your mind.

For my friends of a more magickal nature…

Spells & The Moon

New Moon: With this Moon phase being aligned with asking for your hearts deepest desires or setting true intentions, this is also the best time to undertake love and prosperity spells. The fresh new moon gives you a new drive and the darkness of the night encourages you to peek into your soul.

Full Moon: A time for casting out and removing problems and barriers. Ideal for banishing spells and asking for psychic protection. With the white silvery light of the Moon, white magick abounds so you can ask your requests of the universe guided by that powerful white light.

I hope you liked my guide on manifesting. Remember I am here to guide you, for questions send me a DM on The Gram or shoot me an e-mail. Wishing you abundance & blessed be,

Madame Formtastica


By Madame Formtastica